What would women find out if they could dig deep into the minds of men? If you could ask anything you wanted, what would you ask? Would you ask deep and personal questions? Would you ask naughty questions?
Five Dallas women get the opportunity to ask five Dallas men the question they’ve always wanted to know the answer to. The questions and answers just may surprise you.
Neshawn *is 43 and works in law enforcement. She is currently single and looking for a special guy in her life. Her question: What are some qualities that men look for in a mate and what turns them off?
Tommie, a 34 year-old technician believes in good old fashion chemistry. “First of all, it has to be some type of sexual attraction. Sex appeal is a must.” Tommie prefers an honest, independent woman that takes care of her responsibilities.
As far as turn offs goes, he can’t stand a lazy woman with a bad attitude.
Janice *is a 36 year-old insurance agent who has numerous girl talks with her best buds and her issue is: Why are men generally more reluctant to commit to a monogamous relationship?
“Some just want their freedom, period,” says Ameer*, a 37 year-old man who works in real estate. “They want to come and go as they please. They know that will have to stop if they enter a committed relationship.” Ameer also adds “These men know for a fact they aren’t going to be faithful. [So] what’s the point of doing something [like committing] if you know you are going to fail?”
Kennedy*, a 35 year-old Dallas educator wants to know “what is your definition of love?”
Mike* is 32 and works in the tax service industry. He believes love is limitless.
“If you only love a person because they have a nice job or they have a lot of money, then you love with limits and true love can’t survive that way. When you love someone you accept the person as they are. You will do just about anything to make them happy because when they are happy you are happy.”
Nique, is a Dallas native that works in the customer service industry and she wants to know “why after making a baby with a woman all interest is lost and you don’t want to take care of the child?
Nique knows several women raising their children without the assistance of the father. Although the relationships didn’t work she often wonders why they also leave the children behind.
Kendrick is 37 and works in banking and to him “some men are just not as strong as other men. All men are not cut out to be dads. Any man can produce a child but it takes a real man to own up to his responsibilities.”
Sherry is 43 and works in the Dallas real estate market. Sherry noticed that men today seem to be more interested in getting their own needs met and not concerned with giving women a happy ending. “Why are guys getting more out of sex than women? Have you ever heard of foreplay?”
“Most men are done once they have been satisfied [and] women are left …reaching for toys to get off.” Wen West, a 34 year-old in the multimedia industry believes most men lack knowledge of the female anatomy. “Men must take the time to learn what makes the female aroused. Sex should be enjoyable for both parties involved.”
As far as foreplay is concerned, “Believe it or not there are some women that have yet to even experience an orgasm. Talk about a raw deal.” Wen believes foreplay is very important and makes it a regular part of his sex life.
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